Respect –  Treat people in the way that they would like to be treated.

Reassurance – Create a space where people feel physically and emotionally safe. People shine when they feel accepted and not judged.

Recognition – First see people for who they are. Then see them as they could be, even before they see that for themselves.

Choice – Help people to understand that they have more choices available and then allow them to make their own decisions.

Honesty above Popularity – Tell the truth, always.